性格內(nèi)向的人更吸引人的原因

1. Theyre Great Listeners

1. 他們善于傾聽

Everyone dreams of having that partner with whom they can just talk about everything for hours. Someone who listens really understands what is in your heart. This is one of the introverts superpowers. They love to listen and if youre looking for advice or support， what they will offer is something theyre giving just to you， and thats valuable beyond measure.

每個人都希望自己有一個能聽自己談論一切，幾個小時也不停歇的伙伴。他能聽你說話并且能真正理解你的想法。這就是內(nèi)向之人的超能力。他們喜歡傾聽，如果你向他們尋求建議或是幫助，他們會給你他們能給予你的，那是最重要的。

2. Theyre Mysterious

2. 他們具有神秘感

In a crowd， theyre the ones hovering around the outside， watching and observing， usually with a sly smile. If its their party， theyre making sure everyone is having a good time， floating from group to group， and never staying in one place too long. Theyre around long enough so you know theyre there， but not long enough for you to know much about them. Their mysteriousness is magnetic.

在人群中，他們總保持距離，四處看看，隨處觀察，臉上還常常帶著狡黠的微笑。在他們的聚會上會確保每一個人都能玩得開心，從這群人穿梭到另一群人那里，但不會在一個地方待太久。他們在身邊停留的時間足夠引起你的注意，但不會透露太多信息。他們神秘得如同一塊吸鐵石一般。

3. They Take Care of Themselves

3. 他們會照顧自己

Overall， the introvert doesnt want to draw unwanted attention to themselves. They prefer to blend in with whatever crowd they happen to find themselves in. However， introverts leave clues. As they tend to spend more time in solitude than in crowds， introverts are meticulous in how they take care of themselves. Youll often see them with their hair neat and styled， their nails are trimmed， and their clothing fits them perfectly. Introverts often look and dress like a model without all the flash.

總的來說，內(nèi)向之人不想引起無意的關(guān)注。他們愿意讓自己融入當前所處的環(huán)境。但是內(nèi)向之人也還是留下了一些蛛絲馬跡。由于他們更喜歡獨處，所以內(nèi)向之人更清楚地知道如何照顧好自己。通常你會發(fā)現(xiàn)他們的頭發(fā)光潔有型，指甲修剪整齊，服裝也和他們特別搭配。就算沒有鎂光燈，內(nèi)向之人也把自己收拾得跟個模特一樣。

4. They Know Themselves

4. 他們了解自身

Introverts know what they like and dont like. They are deeply connected with their values and know what they want to get from life. Such strong self confidence makes one more attractive， sophisticated， and desirable.

內(nèi)向之人清楚自己的愛惡。他們深深地將其和自己的價值觀聯(lián)系在一起，清楚地明白想要從生活中得到什么。如此強健的自信心會讓人更有魅力、更老道，也更有價值。