把經(jīng)驗(yàn)的缺乏當(dāng)做財(cái)富

她來自一個(gè)學(xué)術(shù)家庭，13歲憑借《這個(gè)殺手不太冷》年少成名。

她擁有完美顏值和實(shí)力演技，2011年，她憑借電影《黑天鵝》獲得了奧斯卡最佳女主角獎(jiǎng)。

不僅如此，她還是擁有頂級常春藤大學(xué)學(xué)位的學(xué)霸。

她18歲因《星球大戰(zhàn)》獲得金球獎(jiǎng)提名，同時(shí)也以全A的成績接到了哈佛大學(xué)心理學(xué)系的錄取通知書。

她中學(xué)時(shí)曾參與全美公認(rèn)要求最高，最精英的高中科學(xué)競賽，并最終進(jìn)入半決賽。

除了英語，她還會(huì)說希伯來語，阿拉伯語，日語，德語和法語。且擁有屬于自己的埃爾德什系數(shù)。

她是智慧與美貌的化身，是好萊塢著名演員娜塔莉·波特曼。

Achievement is wonderful when you know why youre doing it. And when you dont know， it can be a terrible trap.

成就總是美妙的，但你得知道為什么要做。如果你不知道，它就會(huì)變成可怕的陷阱。

Sometimes your insecurities and your inexperience may lead you， too， to embrace other peoples expectations， standards， or values. But you can harness that inexperience to carve out your own path， one that is free of the burden of knowing how things are supposed to be， a path that is defined by its own particular set of reasons.

有時(shí)你的不安全感和無經(jīng)驗(yàn)也會(huì)導(dǎo)致你去接受別人的期待、標(biāo)準(zhǔn)或價(jià)值，但你們要知道，無經(jīng)驗(yàn)可以造就你們自己的路，一條沒有“事情本應(yīng)怎樣做”之負(fù)擔(dān)的路，一條由你自己的理由來定義的路。

I feel lucky that my first experience of releasing a film was initially such a disaster by all standards and measures. I learned early that my meaning had to be from the experience of making film and the possibility of connecting with individuals rather than the foremost trophies in my industry： financial and critical success. And also these initial reactions could be false predictors of your works ultimate legacy， I started choosing only jobs that Im passionate about and from which I knew I could glean meaningful experiences.

我感到很幸運(yùn)，我首次參演的電影，起初在所有的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)和衡量上來看都是一場災(zāi)難。我很早就學(xué)到，我的價(jià)值應(yīng)該來自于電影拍攝過程的體驗(yàn)，來自觸碰人心的可能，而不是我們行業(yè)最首要的榮譽(yù)：商業(yè)和影評方面的成功。而且，最初的反響可能會(huì)錯(cuò)誤預(yù)測你的作品最終的價(jià)值。于是我開始只挑那些我熱愛的事情來做，只選那些我知道能汲取到有意義經(jīng)驗(yàn)的工作。

By the time I got to making Black Swan， the experience was entirely my own. I felt immune to the worst things anyone could say or write about me， and to whether the audience felt like to see my movie or not. It was instructive for me to see for ballet dancers once your technique gets to a certain level， the only thing that separates you from others is your quirks or even flaws. One ballerina was famous for how she turned slightly off balanced. You can never be the best， technically. Some will always have a higher jump or a more beautiful line. The only thing you can be the best at is developing your own self.

當(dāng)我拍《黑天鵝》時(shí)，整個(gè)經(jīng)歷都是屬于我自己的。我感覺自己已經(jīng)刀槍不入，不怕別人怎么用嘴噴怎么用筆罵，也不在意觀眾是否愿意到影院看我的片子。對我很有啟示的是，對于芭蕾舞者，當(dāng)你的技巧達(dá)到一定高度后，唯一能讓你與他人不同的，就是你的怪異甚至瑕疵。有位芭蕾舞者因轉(zhuǎn)圈的輕微不平衡而出名，從技術(shù)上說，你永遠(yuǎn)不能做到最好，總有人比你跳得更高，或者有更美的姿態(tài)。你唯一能做到最好的，就是發(fā)展你的自我。

So when Black Swan was successful financially and I began receiving accolades I felt honored and grateful to have connected with people. But the true core of my meaning I had already established. And I needed it to be independent of people reactions to me.

所以當(dāng)《黑天鵝》取得商業(yè)上的成功，而我也開始得到贊揚(yáng)之時(shí)，我覺得榮耀和感恩的是，我接觸到了人心。我已經(jīng)建立了自己價(jià)值的真正核心，我需要它不受別人反應(yīng)的影響。

Once there， I had to figure it all out， and my belief that I could handle these things contrary to all evidence of my ability to do so was only half the battle. The other half was very hard work.

在這個(gè)位置上，我必須把這些弄清楚，即便所有的證據(jù)都顯示我能力不足，我仍相信自己能搞定這些事，這還只是戰(zhàn)斗的一半。另一半是拼命工作。

The thing Im saying is， make use of the fact that you dont doubt yourself too much right now. As we get older， we get more realistic， and that includes about our own abilities or lack thereof. And that realism does us no favors.

我要說的是，要好好利用你如今不是那么懷疑自己這件事，隨著年齡增長，我們變得更加現(xiàn)實(shí)，這包括對我們自己能力和缺陷的認(rèn)知，而這種現(xiàn)實(shí)主義對我們沒有好處。

Well， it can be a good thing if it makes you try things you never might have tried. Your inexperience is an asset， and will allow you to think in original and unconventional ways. Accept your lack of knowledge and use it as your asset.

其實(shí)如果能讓你嘗試從不敢嘗試之事，這也未嘗不是好事。你的無經(jīng)驗(yàn)是種財(cái)富，能讓你有原創(chuàng)和不同尋常的點(diǎn)子，接受你經(jīng)驗(yàn)上的缺乏，把它當(dāng)成財(cái)富來用。

And of course， first and foremost， the center of my world is the love that I share with my family and friends. I wish for you that your friends will be with you through it all as my friends from Harvard have been together since we graduated. My friends from school are still very close. We have nursed each other through heartaches and danced at each others weddings. Weve held each other at funerals and rocked each others new babies. We worked together on projects， helped each other get jobs and thrown parties for when weve quit bad ones. And now our children are creating a second generation of friendship as we look at them toddling together. Haggard and disheveled working parents that we are. Grab the good people around you and dont let them go. The biggest asset this school offers you is a group of peers that will both be your family and your school for life.

當(dāng)然，在我的世界里，最首要的，是我跟家人和朋友之間的愛。我希望你們的朋友都能不離不棄，就像我在哈佛的朋友們，畢業(yè)后一直來往。我在學(xué)校的朋友們至今仍非常親密，我們彼此關(guān)愛，熬過傷痛，我們在彼此的婚禮上跳舞，我們在葬禮上彼此扶持。我們抱著寶寶輕搖，我們一起參與項(xiàng)目，幫助朋友找到工作，還在朋友辭掉爛工作時(shí)開派對慶祝。而如今我們的孩子在創(chuàng)造第二代的友誼，看著他們一起蹣跚學(xué)步的，是我們這些疲憊而凌亂的上班族家長。抓緊你身邊的好人，別讓他們跑掉，這所學(xué)校能給你們的最大財(cái)富，就是一群將來會(huì)成為你一輩子的家人，也是良師益友的同學(xué)。