我們所期待的生活

Christy

不知道是在什么時候開始聽說有“丁克”這么一個詞的，那時候也不是很在意。最近卻突然想要了解它，便查了些資料，發(fā)現(xiàn)它大有奧秘，學(xué)問還挺多，光丁克的派生詞匯就有很多，如白丁、丁克ing、丁克ed、丁寵以及鐵丁等如此各種。然后就開始很想一探“丁克一族”的究竟，他們是如何成為的丁克？他們究竟是怎么生活的呢……于是就有了本期的主題。丁克與否，家還是家，那個最溫暖、讓你可以安心休憩的港灣。

A family starts with only two and if theyre lucky and work can create something magical called a family.

I dont know when it started，

Or how it all began.

But the two created a family，

To love， honor， and obey each other.

And show respect for others.

A support filled with love，

Someone on who to depend.

How many weve become，

And all because of family.

We have a lot to be thankful for—

The memories through the years，

The many times together，

Full of laughter， full of tears.

——Michelle A. Moran

結(jié)婚后無論是選擇生兒育女還是選擇做丁克，都要先過好自己的生活，連自己都照顧不好還拿什么去照顧別人呢，正如Babycenter.com網(wǎng)站的出資人卡門·王-烏爾里克（Carmen Wang-Ulrich）所說，If you dont take care of yourself， you end up being a burden on others。